Ok so here goes:
Me = Michelle Poulton, but I prefer to be called Micci, and most people call me that, I normally get what I want 
) At work I’m Michelle, but at home I’m Micci.
Kids = Clarisse (left), the eldest and Xandria (right) the younger one, they’re twins so Clarisse is older by about 5 mins. Then there is my stepson Isak.
Lover, Fiance, Prince Charming = Frans.
Family
Hehehe, more details to follow later. . .
This year feels like it is already 2 months too long. I guess I’m still recovering and getting used to the idea of having to come to work everyday and so much has happened!
Looks like I am applying for another position at work, it will be a lateral move for now, but it opens up the door for promotion and means that I can start with my degree next year. Mmm, have Putty to thank for that, he made some serious fire under my ass when he was here, so thanks Putty.
On the love side: things are okayish. We are now in that comfortable place in the relationship where things get explained better when you can see what you’re saying now is upsetting the other person and before it blows up, it’s sorted out. It also means that a lot of romance is gone, which sucks big time. I miss the gentle touches in the passage passing by. The cuddles, the smooching and so on. Sex is also . . . well, maybe once a week? Granted, we have a 3 year old sharing a room with us and then 2 teenagers that seem to remember things they need to ask as soon as we go to bed and close the door. Me closing my door apparently means: oh, go ask mom. . . . whatever.
We’re finally moving into a bigger place at the end of March. And no, I haven’t packed a thing. This being me, there has to be a hitch right? I am leaving a month before my contract expires, so I have to find a tenant for the flat. Been advertising, there is a lot of interest, but the estate agent turns people down. Skin colour, apparently, in this day and age, is still a problem. Fekkit!!
I am also considering coming out of the closet and blogging under my own name, which should be kinda cool, cause then I can put pics up of my kids and allsorts. So if anyone is interested in me doing that, give a shout out.
Went to my cousin’s funeral yesterday. Haven’t seen him since high school, so wasn’t sure if I should go. It was damn sad, his mom told me he asked her to get hold of me just before he passed – his girlfriend is 4 months pregnant and he wanted to know if it would be ok with me if he named his baby after me. How sad is that? Made me bloody bawl like a baby.
Twins are in their final year of primary school. Scary shit. Yesterday they were in nappies and now they’re going to highschool. Where was I when they grew up? Feels like it happened over night and I missed it all. Word to all the moms to be out there: if it’s at all possible – be a stay at home mom. Time lost is something you can never recover.
So, give me a shout if you think I should come out of the closet so to speak.
Killing was too good for him.
Death was an end, even a release. He’d go to hell, there was no question in her mind, and there he would suffer eternal torment. She wanted that for him – eventually. But for the time being, she wanted him to suffer where she could watch.
Laying, cheating son of a bitch! She wanted him to snivel and beg and plead and slither on his belly like the gutter rat he was. She wanted him to bleed from the ears, to scream like a girl. She wanted to twist his adulterous dick into knots while he shrieked for the mercy she’d never give.
She wanted to pound her fists into his beautiful liar’s face until it was a pulpy, pustulated mass of blood and bone.
Then and only then, the dickless, faceless bastard could die. A slow, withering, agonizing death.
….. Divided in Death
Nora Roberts
She certainly has a way with words, been there, felt that, glad it’s over. Sigh, you need to read things like this to remember to be greatful for how far you’ve come and how happy you are now.
Happy Anniversary for yesterday Hon, it’s been the best year of my life, EVER!
I did a personality test. This is the result:
The Protector
You scored 19 Extroversion, 65 Intuition, 69 Emotional, and 44 Spontaneity!
Relationships
INFJs are warm and affirming people who are usually also deep and complex. They’re likely to seek out and promote relationships that are intense and meaningful. They tend to be perfectionists, and are always striving for the Ultimate Relationship. For the most part, this is a positive feature, but sometimes works against the INFJ if they fall into the habit of moving from relationship to relationship, always in search of a more perfect partner. In general, the INFJ is a deeply warm and caring person who is highly invested in the health of their close relationships, and puts forth a lot of effort to make them positive. They are valued by those close to them for these special qualities. They seek long-term, lifelong relationships, although they don’t always find them.
Strengths
Warm and affirming by nature
Dedicated to achieving the ultimate relationship
Sensitive and concerned for others’ feelings
Usually have good communication skills, especially written
Take their commitments very seriously, and seek lifelong relationships
Have very high expectations for themselves and others (both a strength and weakness)
Good listeners
Are able to move on after a relationship has ended (once they’re sure it’s over)
Awwww, sad but cute huh?
Why would you want to do that to your pussy dudes?!
Michael, eat your heart out!
I feel like this every Monday, minus the bottle and missing the sentence: Why the fuck am I here??
Hehehe, what I wouldn’t give to have a moment like this with my mother-in-law!
Pussy-mime’s.
Like excellent man!
Pussy privacy?
Ja, jy wil mos!!!
Have a good week, en DGS, waar die hel is jy??
I am angry pissed off, so I sent this:
Still no word from them, then again, it doesn’t surprise me. Useless fucks.
15 September 2008
Spectramed
4 Osborne Lane
Bedfordview
2007
Dear Natasha,
Our telephonic discussion earlier this morning refers:
I, HappyTheClam, ID no: YEAH LIKE I WOULD PUBLISH IT HERE, hereby cancel my medical aid cover with immediate effect. I would also greatly appreciate if you could refund me the amount that I had to pay for the farce ‘of being on a medical aid and being covered for PMB’s’. Since I was only on the medical aid for 15 hellish days, I am hoping that this will not be a problem, but after my experience with the in-effiency of your service, experience triumphs over hope and I am quite certain that this, just like everything else surrounding Spectramed, will be yet another nightmare.
The reason for cancelling is that I have never in my life been lied to or ignored or treated as badly by any service provider that I have worked with, Spectramed is the WORST. I was assured that I was covered during my waiting period for PMB’s, apparently, that was a farce, as was the initial assurance that since I moved from one medical aid directly onto another, there would PROBABLY be no waiting period and all PMB’s will be immediately covered.
One of my dependants had to be admitted to hospital for Diabetes Mellitus 1, upon arrival at the hospital, we were told that Spectramed refuses to authorize the admission. I then had to contact the broker, which referred me back to Spectramed, who referred me to MSO who then referred me back to Spectramed. In total I have spent over R 500.00 in phone calls to your offices, MSO and Mediscor, also to try and get my medication, which was ‘covered’ by you. After the pharmacy and I both got confirmation that my bipolar and blood pressure medication was covered, lo and behold, the system refused to pay for my medication. At this point the incompetence and false information did not surprise me any more.
Out of desperation I even contacted Chris Sykers office. That was also a waste of MORE money on a call that had no effect. The lady at his office told me she would follow up and get back to me. This was last week Thursday (11 September 2008), I am still waiting for any sort of response.
As for 90% of Spectramed members being happy with your service, I don’t know where you got that statistic from, but I can only imagine that it was another farce or falsely made up statistic as my experience with this medical aid has been a total nightmare and I would strongly discourage anyone from ever joining or considering Spectramed as an option. I fully disclosed all information on my application and expected, as your adverts on the radio say, good service. I got exactly the opposite.
HappyTheClam
Yawn, so waiting fro 8 am to call them, again. If nothing yet, I will just have to call at 3pm – again – as I’ve been doing for the last three days.
In terrorem
) ) But also DGS, DM and BosparraYou guys better have me locked up, I listen to Metallica and I’m pagan!!!
I’ve followed this story ever since it happened (for obvious reasons), I believe these guys didn’t do it and I am entitled to my opinion on this. Witch trials in the new millenium, why am I not surprised? Let’s hope this appeal will work. . . good luck guys!
I stole nicked this from Parenthesis. I never realised what an idiot I am when it comes to food. Here is my shame. . .
I was tempted to google everything, but decided that it wouldn’t be fair to my fellow retard-eaters out there. So, please explain what the stuff is that I didn’t know. It should be a finger numbing experience!
